Wife Abuser

Where there is spousal abuse, questions run through my mind. Is the husband a loner that could have been reached if others had spent some time making room for him in their social lives and personal lives? Is he an individualist with no friends and nowhere to turn without social connections and coping skills to sort out is problems. Are a lot of wife abusers latent individualists who simply are incompatible with, so therefore are rejected by groupists nearby and surrounding them?around Nothing excuses his bullying his wife, but crap runs down hill. Who is abusing him? Things do not happen in a vacuum. This anger, self-loathing and feelings of helplessness and being victimized are coming from some source, and they always find an outlet of some kind. I have a theory that the most overt evildoers, with proper training and a heightened sense of self-awareness and upon being maverized, would love the self, so there would no need to any longer hurt anyone. The most overt sinners likely have a craving for doing something special with their lives, to be somebody, even if it is only by committing senseless, repulsive acts violence by which they gain notoriety and an outlet, albeit short-lived, for their profoundly felt frustration. We can allow women and children to be independent and self-developing, career et. al., but it would not hurt for the man in their lives to live by a traditional, but wholesome moral outlook. If his self-image that he is a provider, guardian and protector of his wife (who receives his respect, affection and fair treatment as his vows to do or say nothing that undermines her happiness or success in life). As such a manly man, he does not prey upon or abuse his wife or children.