Groupists have fellow feeling for loud, sometimes obnoxious male extroverts that are popular members of the pack. They pat him on the back, and demur that "Boys will be boys."
When he is like I am, a loud, sometimes obnoxious male extrovert, and am a great soul without any knack for social joining any group, then this unpleasant personality triggers a very different response from groupists encountered. Angry counter-attacking is not out of the question. Sullen silence and withdrawal of social invitations are more typical.
To observe the regularity with which joiner or loner loud male extroverts are treated so differently by groupists is breathtaking, and much reveals how groups work.
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