What you desire in an ideal lover/significant other may or may not be whom you end up wedded to and bedding with. Most likely, you will not match up perfectly with the one that you love and spend all your days with. Your duty as a lover is never to infringe upon her/his sacrosanct dignity and singularity as an individual. You may seek to influence them, or make minor suggestions, but, beyond that point, you live with them as they are, period. If they are insufferably different from what you crave in an ideal partner, you should have married someone closer to your liking and preference.
If you both enjoy each other as the unique persons that you are, then you will compromise, and accept the other as she is, and what she is, over time, will come to be what you thought that you needed from the get go, even if it was not. She may be better for you then anyone else, and, if she is, that is a blessing from the Good Spirits to cherish and appreciate.
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