Withitness

Those that are joiners more intuitively sense what others around them think, feel and value, and work hard to relay their sympathy and cooperation with such expressions and desires. Their is an intuitive withitness lacking in a developed loner, who misses, does not value, or respond to such unstated but generally sensed cues for social interaction. This social deafness is punished and then if it goes on long enough and severely enough, the loner is banned for life by the group.

Those that are developed, natural or entrenched loners intuitively latch onto stimuli and concerns external to the group than do joiners subjectively and internally focused and oriented. This external withitness may very well define how loners think, act and respond to a world they encounter on their own.