Negative individuation occurs when a person overcomes all the demons that haunt her to make it big, to be rich, famous and an iconic sex symbol as Heather Locklear was in the 90s.
Now with alcohol and substance abuse, hitting cops and first responders, rehab treatments and serious depression issues afflicting her, it appears that the demons that drove her to success are now eating her up as her life has fallen apart at the age of 56.
I carry many of the same demons and psychic wounds inside me: the presence of God, temperate living, prudence and my self-taught mantra of emotional positives help keep me going in spite of the gnawing old insecurities, the group discriminating, the brutal loneliness and corrosive depression.
I remind myself to be cheerful, calm, loving, at peace, enthusiastic, resolved and brave. It is not a perfect solution, but it helps, along with the constant healing presence of good spirituality healing my soul.
Positive individuation is being and becoming all that one can be and was meant to be because it makes one happy, and because God and the Good Spirits expect us to maverize, and our doing so makes them very pleased.
May Heather find some inner peace so that she can keep her demons at bay, and recover and surmount her current difficulties and making a brilliant actress for the lifetime that she has left to live.
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