Can'tHelp

 

I have long suspected (But I now poignantly grasp this truth.) that I cannot save anyone but myself. It seems intuitively correct that I cannot help others, but I could hurt them—if I lived as a cruel altruist (which I refuse to do) hurting fellow joiners. As a cruel altruist, either overtly or subconsciously, the victims of my cruel malice would detect my hostile intentions, but they would allow me to get away with it because they “enjoy” allowing my hurting them to damage their lives and shape their destiny.

 

This conclusion seems bleak and pessimistic. It is but there is promise and hope, ultimately.

 

The good deities and Good Spirits are individualists and individuators more than they are joiners and nonindividuators, though they are both.

 

The evil deities and Evil Spirits are mostly joiners and nonindividuators, though some of them are individualists and individuators.

 

Humans are born basically evil. What is evil? Well, in one simple and somewhat simplistic answer, evil is hatred of the self or others, while good or goodness is love of the self or others.

 

I believe people are born depraved, which indicates they genetically are born with low self-esteem, so they hate themselves, and when the self is filled with hate, the resentment, bitterness and unhappiness that fill one with rage and despair do inspire the sick and suffering self to lash out at the self and at others, and thus malevolence or needless, unnatural suffering is introduced into and propagated in the world.

 

People do not like themselves. The evil deities ruling the world, and the people under the spell and sway of these evil deities, the majority of the common people that are nonindividuating and running in packs—the evil deities and their children of darkness all conspire to amplify this individual self-hatred.

 

When a young adults thus hates herself, this is what unfolds in her life: she, with whatever level of consciousness and free will she is able to self-determine, enjoys or at least be self-compelled to abuse herself, and welcome and to be receptive to parents, adults, authority figures and peers  attacking her, hurting her and  nudging her to hurt herself and conduct her life based in poor choices, enough of which will destroy her life.

 

She chooses to wield collectivist power of powerlessness, so she only responds favorably to suggestions from fellow self-hating, groupists--sadists and masochists that drag her down further, and further damage her life. Groupists can help and hurt others, but individualists like me cannot help anyone, because to love the self and to love others requires that each agent freely choose to be individualistic to love herself, and to grow her healthy self-esteem and to pursue her enlightened self intertest as a living angel in line with what the good deities want and expect.

 

As a cruel groupist, I can hurt others, and have influence over them, and they willingly will receive such input because they believe suffering needlessly is their destiny and what they deserve.

 

As a kind individualist, I cannot help others except by example and limited if unwelcome advice; only the alone, lonely individual can save the individual of her own free will if she elects to live well.

 

The only way to help anyone effectively is to provide the next generation with a moral system of egoism-altruist and living life of living angel self-realization and supecitizenship so, over time, enough of the young 40 years from now may wake up and come to love themselves. As they come to unnaturally esteem themselves and learn to use this Mavellonialist ethical and religious reform to make something of themselves, more of the young will be willing to receive outside help to save themselves for only the self can save the self, but the village of groupists can damage the self of low self-esteem children in the community.