Attributes

 You are you and what adjectives, accurately characterizing you of course, do you want applied to your person and character? Do you want to be known as a conformist, lazy, selfish, cowardly joiner and general mediocrity, or would you rather be admired as an independent, industrious, living, courageous individualist and achiever?

If you choose the latter set of attributes as characterizing you, then accept that you will have had to earn these descriptors.