How individuated we are is not proportional to how we feel insecure and lonely about the poor opinion that the majority of people around us, all joiners. I am very developed but still feel the raw sting each event freshly when snubbed by a foolish, strutting, undeveloped joiner.
What I can postulate is that how secure we feel about individuating and about who we are as persons, and the life changes that we pursue is proportional directly to how secure we feel, how indifferent we are to the opinions of others about us, and how at peace we fill.
It takes great strength of will to do what we need to do, and be who we are, without caring one way or the other what others think or say or do about us and our chosen lifestyles.
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