Loner-Loser

I self-referred to myself, using this unflattering set of names, in my 3/23/2014 blog entry entitled:"I Write To Many But There Is No Response". I do not hate myself very much, and I love myself much more, but I try to be truthful. I think this set of nouns somehow capture who I am, and how the world characterizes me. What I write below is an attempt to provide context for this unflattering set of descriptive nouns.

First off, I think I am in fine company for God, in the eyes of the world, is a "Loner-Loser'. This theological understanding is central to grasping how important is this unflattering phrasing. God is a loner, but God is no loser. But the world is not God's home, and De does not rule here, so obviously those in charge here directly refer to those dissenting from what is in vogue as losers. Indirectly, these unworldly dissidents work for God, so indirectly the worldly winners are speaking pejoratively of God as a loner-loser too. I define the Devil as a Joiner-Winner in the populated circles on earth where Sa currently holds sway.

In heaven God is a Loner-Winner and De's followers are Loners-Winners. Thereat, Satan is a Joiner-Loser and Sa's followers are Joiner-Losers.

When not distorted and hindered by groupist and institutional dysfunction, most loners are objectively, positively, usually decent, honorable people. This is especially so when the loner or loser is an individualist on the way to becoming a great soul, an individuator.

The small-minded loner, the average loner, or a great-souled loner, to a much varying but corresponding degree of rejection, are repulsed by joiners, the worldly, the undeveloped, the popular.

When members of the crowd hurl this insulting name, "Loner-Loser" at a member of the group, other members of the group cannot cut off communication with the victim quickly enough. To continue to associate with the downgraded, smeared victim is to lose social capital. That is a risk that the ambitious and worldly cannot afford to risk. Their life mission--the nonindividuating one--is to be well-connected, increasingly popular and well-situated to increase their social rank, their social clout, how much money they make, and how approved of as they can be. They will sacrifice anybody and anything to retain and build up their social capital.

The descriptive name, Joiner-Winner, in the eyes of the world, is a compliment. People, being depraved, lie to themselves and harness themselves to the yoke of worldly, collectivist, nonindividuating.

God is displeased with Joiner-Winners for being the corrupt liars that they are, and refusing to commit affirmatively to following God's personal plan for each of them.

Objectively speaking, a joiner can be a winner or a loser, and a loner could be a winner or a loser. And of course there are always exceptions to these broad generalizations. Typically though, here on earth and in heaven, a loner is a winner and a joiner is a loser--from God's perspective. Therefore, to enter the kingdom of heaven it is better to be a loner than a joiner in the right mix, blending both modes of social interaction. The worldly winner that has a million "friends", and that is rich, popular, influential and famous, one day will have a lot to answer for.

And there are worldly winners--atypical admittedly--that are popular, known, esteemed and rich that are good, holy and moral persons. And there are some joiners that are self-actualizers, helping themselves and others, making an adult contribution back to the community,

God would describe the non-individuating joiner as a loser, as selfish, cowardly, immature, evil morally and spiritually. They give back nothing or very little.

Satan regards as losers such loners that are unpopular and do not fit in. They are not worldly, cool, successful, but settle for the unprofitable life of individuation, on the way to becoming great souls.