To join others is to be jealous. Joiners feel that have a stake in responding if others succeed. An individual, a loner or an individuator does not care, and is not threatened or offended if another succeeds.
It is the non-achievers, the lazy joiners, the unambitious nonindividuators that are affronted and made very uncomfortable when another, especially a former or current member of the in-crowd, makes good, leaving the sluggish behind, moving upward and outward with a bright future ahead.
We have not right to approve or disapprove if another is successful. It is none of our business. We should be busy getting ahead, doing our own thing. We should not have the time to be or the inclination to be jealous, to retard the advancement of another's career because their success is making us look bad.
Talk about an unproductive waste of time.
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